We do not recommend this training for every man. We urge you not to apply to this program without serious forethought, and not to enroll simply at the urging of a spouse or friend. To participate in this training, you must be willing to face the prospect of transformative change in your life.
You must be highly committed to your life, and ready to participate fully in all training activities, many of which encourage you to take a hard look at yourself, your deepest fears, your wounds from the past, and the specific ways in which your life is not working for you. We choose to work only with men who are ready, and willing to do this initiatory work with us.
A Poemby Chris Golden
A man alone.
Destined for to find his throne.
Set out on his quest of suffering.
Unknowing the chosen path was his own.
Saddened by all things thought to be real.
Would only stop, think, but forgot to feel.
Feeling, you see, is what first brought him to his knees.
His heart, so big, made the pain so great.
As time flew by his sadness turned to hate.
Sad for the things he thought he had lost.
Never living in the moment, never knowing the cost.
Now the man realized, while being alone, “I got myself here, not the things I don’t own”.
So if it’s me that has failed, then who can I trust?
But I can’t give up.
Move on I must.
Along the way, he learned many things.
Wisdom is doing, be loving not fearing, find yourself and then you’ll be living.
The things seemed simple but when applied.
His life began to change.
Back came the twinkle to his eye.
Seemingly lasting for only a minute then passing.
But better than death.
So come to know your breath.
The patience must last.
Leave behind the past.
Perfect takes practice.
Be perfect now, then future becomes vast